Oct 3, 2010

Hot Monogamy by Dr. Patricia Love & Jo Robinson

The Sharper Image, a company that specializes in electronic and high tech gadgets, recently test-marketed two items of lingerie: a black lace hose and garter combination and a black lace body stocking. The two items alone added $1.5 million in "male" order sales. This sales figure isn't surprising.

In one survey a thousand men were asked what turned them on most: dirty talk, x-rated videos, porn, female masturbation, sexy lingerie, or "other". Of the men surveyed, 92 percent said they were most turned on by sexy lingerie. In an interesting footnote, 73 percent of these men said they relied on stimulation such as this to sustain their interest in a long-term relationship. In essence, a man who asks his partner to wear a lace teddy to bed may be saying to her, "Please help me be monogamous."

Sep 14, 2010

Don't Wait Too Long - Madeleine Peyroux

I used to love listening to Billy Holiday when I was a kid my two favorite songs were "God Bless the Child" and "Easy Livin". When I heard Madeleine Peyroux I immediately fell in love with the sound of her voice. Madeleine is an American born jazz singer who moved to France at the age of 13. Her album Bare Bones has been out a year now but I just discovered it and I want to share with you my favorite song of hers. This is a great song for a strip tease.

Sep 8, 2010

Italian Inspired Teddy, simply beautiful.

How high should your stockings be?

When shopping for stockings make sure you buy them high enough so that your skirt doesn't ride above the stocking.
These here are perfect!

For the A-Cup Crowd, Minimal Assets Are a Plus

This is the story that appeared on last week on the New York Times.

According to the article, it's cool these days to have tiny boobs. The Times writer goes on to say: "These days, it's not uncommon for women with modest busts to flaunt what little they've got with a deep V-neck cut or a halter top." She also notes that there are a number of Facebook groups peopled by flat-chested and small-breasted women who are proud of their barely-there mammaries.

Super Sexy CPR

Fortnight Lingerie demonstrates how to perform CPR. Anyone need a refresher?

Sep 7, 2010

Shoulder Pads and Bullet Bras

I love this bra, I want one. Check out La Perla's photos, do you like the Shoulder Pad Bra? I've never been a fan of the Shoulder Pad because so many clothes are made with shoulder pads that are so big ladies end up looking like football players. If you're going to wear the shoulder pads you might as well wear the booty pads too. Rumor has it J-Lo and the late Selena wore them.

This photo illustrates perfect fitting shoulder pads, see how nicely it cuffs the shoulder? Very Kim Kardash. Notice the first picture, the pads look three sizes too big for her.



La Perla Photos - Shoulder Pad Bras pictures, photos, images

Sep 6, 2010

10 Tips to Lead a Good Sex Life

I found these tips and I needed to share with everyone as I believe that it is a great way to increase sexual desire.
  1. Keep a very open attitude to express and listen to what you like and what you dislike. Communicate your turn-ons to your partner.
  2. Always bear in mind the differences between your own libido and your partner's. (There are many reasons why a person may have low libido). 
  3. Discover your own sensitivity through masturbation.
  4. Stop looking for simultaneous orgasms, it is not common, however, it is possible.
  5. Forget about multiple orgasms, one is enough, however, sex is not only about orgasm it is also about the spiritual connection between lovers.
  6. Respect your partner if he (or she) doesn't want to have sex.
  7. Set sexual goals.
  8. Avoid drugs, alcohol, and smoking, all three affect erection.
  9. Understand that the secret to female orgasm is the clitoris, which is better stimulated with the tongue or hands.
  10. Finally, always remember that sex is the pursuit of pleasure, not an athletic endurance competition.

Sep 3, 2010

Bullet Bra

                                                      

Satin with Lace Lingerie

Garter with Thigh Highs

Thigh-high stockings worn with garters can provide a more comfortable, economical, and sexy alternative to pantyhose.

Very few women enjoy wearing pantyhose. While they do flatter the legs and help hold in our tummies, pantyhose are not very comfortable. Furthermore, getting in and out of them can be a struggle and they can give you a muffin top.

More women are tossing out their pantyhose in favor of thigh-highs with garters. Below is an overview of the various types and how to wear them.

There are two common types of garters on the market today: elastic band garters and suspenders.

The elastic band garters are stretchy bands, often decorated, that are worn around the thighs to hold up the stockings. (Traditionally worn by American brides and tossed by the groom at the wedding reception.) While these are the easiest type of garter to use, some women find them uncomfortable, because they often fit too tightly.

Suspender-type garters are more comfortable than elastic band garters and they come with fasteners, which are usually better at holding up stockings. The fasteners are easy to use, and consist of a plastic or rubber button that slides into place to lock the stocking.

The simplest is the garter belt, which is worn around the waist or hips, with the garter straps (typically four) hanging down onto the thighs. If you want tummy control, you can find garters attached to girdles or panty girdles. If you are feeling sexy or romantic, you might want to seek out teddies, frilly corsets, or other types of lingerie with garters attached.

Different women prefer different kinds of garters. Some women find metal clasps uncomfortable or irritating to the skin, and so they look for garters with plastic clamps instead. Others prefer the look and feel of the metal clasps.

Some women collect a variety of garter styles for different occasions - elastic bands for the daytime, pretty garter belts and corsets for romantic occasions, and so on. Shop around, experiment, and see which styles best fit your body type, your personality, and your budget.

Have fun experimenting with different kinds of thigh-highs, and try a variety of colors. They can provide an inexpensive way to add some pizzazz to your wardrobe.

Not only are thigh-high stockings more comfortable and more glamorous than pantyhose, but they tend to be more economical as well. With pantyhose, if you get a run in one leg, the whole pair is ruined. With individual thigh-highs, on the other hand, a run only means that you need to replace one half of the pair.

Bra and Panty Lingerie Collage

Corsets will make you feel sexy, confident and sizzling hot!


Corsets are one of the most seductive pieces of lingerie you will ever own. Don't worry about that bit of belly fat or those love handles, a beautiful laced-up corset will put everything in its place and give you the smooth silhouette you desire.

Teddies


The Teddy is a classic piece of women's lingerie. A sexy lingerie teddy can be very open in its design or it can be more full bodied. Today their is a wide variety of styles and fabric materials used - but all are comfortable and provide a wonderful experience for women to enjoy a great lingerie garment. This is because a teddy is very much a multi-purpose type of garment. You can wear a teddy as sleepwear, or as a body-hugging garment to help enhance those intimate moments that take place in the bedroom, or perhaps out of it!

For a nice change from your regular nightgown or pyjamas, a teddy just cannot be beat. As a sexy, titillating garment to capture your partner’s attention, the teddy is ideal in every way. The style of a teddy is simple, yet effective. Strategic bits of cloth can be missing from a teddy in order to highlight certain areas of the body, and this can be true of both the top and the bottom of a teddy.

Panty Girdle

Panty Girdles are a nice alternative to a garter belt while providing a smoothing shape.

Girdles

Girdles have long been used by women to create a thin, streamlined look through the torso and abdomen, hips and buttocks, thighs and even legs.  There are many styles to choose from - each with its own unique qualities.  Although many women wear girdles for the aesthetic appeal, many girdles are also worn for lower back support, maternity/post-partum abdominal support, and (with the addition of garter belts) for the purpose of assisting in holding up pantyhose.  

Suspender-type garters

Garter belts are some kind of lingerie extravagance for a lot of women. The possible reason is that they don’t know how to wear it, or they don’t know how to choose the right garter belt for their shape and frame.

However, according to some experts, not wearing garter belts is big mistake since if properly fitted they look great on any body type. Garter belts can be very unforgiving though, and can make even the hottest fashion model look a bit funny-shaped. The trick is working with your hips and not against them. So here are some simple tips to follow to choose the right garter belt for you.

CHOOSE THE MATERIAL
A perfectly fitting sexy garter belt is usually the one made from stretch lace or stretch satin. These fabrics are really luxurious and turn any look into something ultimately hot and glamorous. Anyway, if you choose a garter belt for purely practical purposes and don’t look at it as some kind of lingerie item to turn your man on, a stretch jersey belt is also ok.

THINK ABOUT THE WAIST
It’s crucially important to make sure the belt sits right on you, meaning it’s in the right place. To assure comfort and perfect fit mind the following:

The garter belt must be wide enough not to cut into your waist or hip, otherwise you may end up looking like you've gained a couple of pounds.

To avoid that you can choose from low-rise or mid rise belts. Just make sure the belt doesn’t go lower than you panties trim (low rise) or higher than your navel (mid rise).

Garter Bands





A garter is an elastic band that is worn around the thigh or a suspender-like strap that is attached to a girdle and a pair of stockings. There are two main purposes for wearing garters. They can be purely functional for holding up thigh-high hosiery or they can be used as a sexy addition to your lingerie. Either way, both types of garter are easy to put on and wear in the bedroom or out on the town.


  1. Step 1

    Pull on your thigh-high stockings.



  2. Step 2

    Sit down while wearing the stockings. This will reposition the top of the stocking so that it will not slip from being stretched too high on the leg.



  3. Step 3

    Slip your foot through the garter and pull it up to your thigh.



  4. Step 4

    Leave around 2 inches of the stocking above the garter band.


Seamed Stockings

Seamed stockings are a seductive transition into the bedroom where even greater things await. Wear them with a skirt to let your lover know the best is yet to come.

What Seamed Stockings Say
"Hello, I'm sexy, I look sexy, and I feel sexy. You want to get to know me better?" They say it in a breathy whisper, beckoning your lover to come a little closer for a more thorough inspection. If Marilyn Monroe were panty hose, she'd be seamed stockings.

These stockings beg for a double take, a hand to follow the line and find your laciest lingerie underneath your clothing. Embrace your inner pin-up girl by slipping into these and attaching them to a garter belt or skirt. Maybe you'll even make your own calendar while you're wearing them. What a great present for the man in your life.

Skimpy Thong

Skimpy thongs are the answer for those who like to wear pants that have the potential to show panty lines, but don't want to be completely go bare. They're also very erotic, so when you strip down in the bedroom after a long day, it's sure to be a treat for your lover. Don’t be surprised if they buy you more. You may also see them called G-strings or V-strings.

Wearing Skimpy Thongs
Sometimes panties don't go well with your pants. Pair the wrong style with your pants or skirt and you'll deal with bunching, wrinkling, panty lines, and discomfort. That's where skimpy thongs come into play. There is very little material to get caught up in your pants, and you're virtually guaranteed not to have panty lines. There are a few rules to wearing these skimpy thongs:

Keep the waistband of the thong tucked inside your pants! Many women tend to let their thongs peek out of the top of their pants. Don't do it you'll look cheap! Make sure your skimpy thongs are only seen by yourself and your significant other.

If your pants are light, try finding a nude pair of skimpy thongs (this will vary based on your skin tone). Finding thongs with little or no embellishments will also cut down on their visibility.

Don't forget that skimpy thongs often come as part of very sexy lingerie sets. So while you may pull them out of the drawer on occasion to wear with a basic bra underneath your work clothes, don't forget their intended purpose. Wear them in the bedroom with a cute babydoll! They'll make you feel like a goddess.

Why Women Should Enjoy Oral Sex by Dr. Marty Klein

Sexuality Begins in the Womb

As early as 16 weeks in the womb male fetuses have erections. In newborn males, spontaneous erections continue to occur, awake and asleep and female's vaginas lubricate and their clitorises swell.

Here's the link: It starts in the womb

Does kissing make sex better?

Is sex better when two people kiss? Dr. Marty Klein believes so.

Aug 21, 2010

Hitachi Magic Wand



For over 30 years, the Hitachi Magic Wand has set the standard for personal hand-held massagers. The soft spherical head gives a soothing massage, operated by a two speed switch located on the Wand's slender handle. Unlike cordless style massagers, the Magic Wand's strong electric motor is powered using a standard cord/plug, providing a constant power source for those extended massage sessions. Operation lasts about 25 mins with 5,000 vibrations per min. on low and 6,000 vibrations per min. on high. 20 Watts.

Aug 20, 2010

This History of the Vibrator


Steam-powered vibrating devices were patented in the late 1860s and 1870s by George Taylor, and various other models soon followed. They were used by doctors of the time to alleviate female "hysteria" and other complaints.The vibrator was invented as a labor-saving mechanical device that allowed doctors to quickly and efficiently bring patients to climax without tiring out their fingers.

The history of the vibrator is quite interesting goes back 2,500 years watch this short clip of the documentary Passion and Power: The Technology of Orgasm, you can purchase the rest of the DVD here

Aug 18, 2010

All About Lube

What do you do if your girlfriend's vagina is bone-dry during sex. It's chafing you, hurting her, and making the sex unpleasant in general. You try using spit but that doesn't help. The spit doesn't last, and repeatedly rubbing your spit on her va-jay-jay really isn't your idea of a good time. You try lubricated condoms, but the greasy sandwich bag sensation isn't helping matters. What do you do?

One word: lube. Personal lubricants are the quickest, easiest, and effective solution to problems like dryness.

Lubes can also help extend lovemaking sessions, make your own masturbation sessions better, and it is virtually required for anal sex.

USING DIFFERENT LUBES
Even if you don't think you need lube, you may be surprised at what it can do for your sex life. Think about it: quickies are no problem with lube. Just apply some and you're off to the races -- it eliminates the need for your girl to get wet first. And speaking of which, say you have a girl that takes ages to build up enough natural lubrication for sex. Give lube a try, and your jaw muscles will thank you later.

So if you think you're a guy who could benefit from using lube, read on. I'll give you the lowdown on different types of lube, things to be mindful of, and reviews of the most popular and widely available brands.

Virtually all lubes on the market today fall into one of three categories:

1- Water-based;
2- Silicone-based; and,
3- Oil-based

Each of these has their advantages and disadvantages. For most situations though, water-based lubes are by far the most popular.

WATER-BASED LUBES
Water-based lubes are just that: water-based. Their main feature is that they're smooth and slick, but not sticky and messy like silicone and oil-based lubes can be.

Since they're water-soluble, skin and mucous membranes will absorb them. This makes cleanup a breeze: just a little warm water, maybe some soap, and the lube will easily wash off the skin.

However, it also means that you might have to periodically reapply it, depending on how long you have sex for. This is one of the chief drawbacks of water-based lube, since we all know that in the heat of the moment, an interruption is probably the worst thing that could happen.

Water-based lubes also have the added advantage of being completely condom-compatible (oil-based lubes corrode latex and cannot be used with condoms -- more on that later). One thing to watch out for, however, is that many water-based lubes contain glycerin, which can promote infections in women pretty easily. So make sure your girl cleans up right away after using one.

Popular water-based lubes:
Astroglide: Maybe the most popular water-based lube out there. It's on the thin side, but nice and slick, and long-lasting. It's also available in many drugstores, which is convenient. If you've never used lube and are just looking to try something out, Astroglide is a great place to start.

Wet: This one is almost as popular as Astroglide, but Wet is a bit thicker. It's also available in various flavors -- perfect for when you need some added slickness for oral sex.

Slippery Stuff Gel: According to the rumor mill, Slippery Stuff was originally designed to help divers get in and out of tight wetsuits. Somewhere down the line, though, someone discovered that there was a far more interesting use for this wonderful lube. It's thick and very long-lasting, but gets somewhat stringy as it dries. Slippery Stuff Gel is, overall, a pretty good middle-ground between Astroglide and Maximus.

KY Jelly: The world's most famous water-based lube, KY frankly isn't the best. It dries up quicker than better-quality lubes, and gets tacky as it dries. I do not recommend it highly. KY, actually, was designed for medical use. That is, it's designed to facilitate easy entry, and clean up quickly. I suggest that you stick to lubes that are designed for sex.

SILICONE-BASED LUBES
Silicone-based lubes are similar to water-based lubes, but are generally much greasier and last much longer, despite having a thinner texture. In fact, that's their main advantage: silicone-based lubes take ages to dry out. No muss, no fuss, no need to reapply.

What's more; you can actually use them in water and they'll still work. They're not quite as easy to clean up as water-based lubes, though. Those who don't like silicone-based lubes say that using them is like having motor oil slathered on your bits. Others swear by it.

Popular silicon-based lubes include:

Wet Platinum: By the makers of Wet, naturally, this is high quality and very long-lasting.

Eros Bodyglide: It's almost identical to Wet Platinum, but more expensive.

ID Millennium: ID Millennium is a good lube, but not quite as smooth as Eros or Wet Platinum. It's still a good choice, however.

OIL-BASED LUBES
Oil-based lubes are... well, you just shouldn't use them. Why? First, they corrode latex, so you can't use them with condoms. Second, they're bad for your woman's vaginal health in a variety of ways. And finally, they're slimy and messy. Seriously. Baby oil, Vaseline, Crisco, etc., are known for their lubricating properties, but using them is just a bad idea.

SLIPPERY WHEN LUBED
Most sex stores will carry at least a few of the brands mentioned here. Some of these can be found in drugstores. You can also click on the product you like and see my price and order from me.